Tuesday, October 9, 2007

3 Easy Tips To Keep Your Man Attracted

Quick Tip- it's important that the way you and your man talk and share is not only open and honest, but that it actually makes him feel likeopening up and sharing more with you, not less.Too many women end up in relationships with menwhere they know less about a man's REAL FEELINGSthan some stranger on the street.It's not only possible for the person you're supposed to be closest with (the man in your life) to start feeling like he'll be "punished" when he tells you things that scare you or freak you out... lots of women make this huge mistake with men andguarantee that their partner won't be open or honest and authentic with them.If a man fears how you will react emotionally, and you show him that being honest with you willonly send you off the deep end... then whether yousee it right now or not, you're encouraging yourman to stop telling you the truth about how hereally feels.Is this what you really want?Don't put yourself, your relationship, and the manyou're with in jeopardy this way. It can be easy,and feel so much better to have that amazing deeplevel of CONNECTION and sharing. And it's this thatis at the heart of any SECURE relationship.If you'd like to know exactly how to start having the man in your life open up, talk, and share withyou so that it doesn't feel like pulling teeth justto know who you both really are with each other... then you need to read this letter that's filled with all my best tips for how to talk with a man:

101 reasons wat makes u a gr8 frnd...

1. i can't spell frndship without u
2. ur da most beautiful flower in da garden of my life
3. you can easily tell a lie for my convenience
4. you understand when i'm too buzy
5. you know me better than my siblings
6. u don't necessarly support my decisions
7. u go an extra mile when i need help
8. u tolerate my bad moods and still speak 2 me wen ur in 1
9. at others expense, u make a gr8 laughing partner
10. u walk in wen oders walk out
11. i can speak my heart out to u
12. u openly discuss a disaterous date/crush
13. u fall 4 da same junk as i do
14. u help me to chose the right think 4 my heartthrob
15. i can throw my tantrums on
16. i can rely on u 2 post my letters
17. i know i needn't luk my best wen ur around
18. i can discuss my crepy fantasies with u
19. u motivate me 2 execis
20. u've got sense of humour
21. u hand me ur handkerchief wen i've conveniently 4gotten min
22. u bluntly tell me wen i need 2 spray a deo or mouth freshner
23. i can freely discuss my ex's nd my latest crush
24. i can tok 2 u 4 hours abt anything nd nothin
25. i can tuck in 4 a blockbuster night
26. u know my secret wishes and keep them a secret
27. u know how to give me lil surprises 2 make my day
28. u keep me well informed abt latest gossips
29. u let me know,wen i need to mend my way
30. ur a reminder of wats important in lif
31. i can freely discuss censored topics wit
32. u always welcome me with a warm hug
33. even if we're not in touch 4 ages, i know ur dere for me
34. u flatter me wen i need 2
35. u never burn a hole in my pocket
36. shopping is fun. u always manage a good bargain
37. u understand my moods very well
38. you answer my phone,wen i'm avoiding a call
39. u never let ego cum btwn us
40. ur dere for me , wen i'm feelin down
41. going out with u doesn't need a reason or occasion
42. time simply flies by wenever we're together
43. i can b very comfy wid u
44. u help me solve my problems
45. u keep a check on me wen i'm at my spendin spree
46. u can sit uietly wid me
47. u care 4 my happiness
48. u equally participate wid me on playin a prank
49. u don't take me 4 granted
50. u get worried wen i'm not well
51. u read me lik a buk
52. ur always soooo right
53. wenever i'm wrong u never make it worse by sayin "i told u so"
54. i can b funny nd get away without makin a fool of my self
55. u've got a gr8 sporting spirit
56. u make me laugh
57. u celebrate my triumphs
58. u help me overcum my shortcummins
59. ur selfless nd giving
60. without feelin hesitant i can borrow ur books, dress, etc..etc..etc.....
61. u bring sunshine into my life
62. u never gossip abt me
63. u know how to pamper me
64. u know were to find the best pair of jeans on the cheap
65. u never dump me for sum1 else
66. u know how 2 make me stop wen,i'm tokin sheer nonsense
67. u consider my feelins too
68. i can call u any itme of da day without feelin hesitant
69. u point out wen i'm lukin lika an idiot
70. u know exactly wat to get for my birthday
71. coackroaches don't scare the hell out of u
72. u don't loose ur cool as often as i do
73. u so much believe in sharing, from secrets to candies
74. u know the best eating joint
75. u neva shout along with mewen i'm shouting at my throats best
76. u immediately apologise after harshly giving me a piece of ur mind
77. u are never afraid to accept ur faults
78. u respect my privacy
79. u never demand a clsrification
80. u always save the last bite of delecious 4 me
81. ur shoulders are everready for me to lean on
82. u alarm me wen i've gained too much weigth
83. u light up my life
84. u patiently listen to all my troubles
85. bcauze u bring infinite joys 2 me
86. ur as sweet as can b
87. u accept me the way i am
88. each time i think of u, i smile
89. u know how to emotionally black mail me
90. i can trust on ur advice
91. ur a true reflection of me
92. i can ask u uestions lik "am i lukin good" no of times nd i knoiw u won't get irratated
93. NO ONE CAN EVER TAKE UR PLACE
94. u've seen me at my worst and still stood by me
95. u have more faith in me dan i do in myself
96. u will never change nomatter wat happens tomorrow
97. u make me wish, we were in the same family
98. u know wento make things light
99. u never laugh at my faults
100. u bring out the best in me
101. and the greatest reason is that, you are simply "YOU" ....